"People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work"
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Broyard understood criticism as a social act, not just an aesthetic one. To “talk about each other’s work” is to risk turning a friend into a subject, to let appraisal leak into affection. Writers trade in attention, status, and language itself; their “work” is often their identity in public. So the subtext is brutal: if you love someone and you are also trained to judge, you will eventually face a moment where honesty threatens kindness, and kindness threatens honesty.
As a critic, Broyard is also slyly implicating himself. Critics are paid to convert private reactions into public verdicts. Put that instinct inside a friendship and every compliment can sound strategic, every critique can feel like betrayal. The wit comes from how calmly he names the taboo: the hardest part isn’t rivalry, it’s disclosure. In that tiny “have to,” Broyard captures the coercive etiquette of literary culture, where silence reads as contempt and sincerity always carries risk.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Broyard, Anatole. (2026, January 15). People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-no-idea-what-a-hard-job-it-is-for-two-171057/
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Broyard, Anatole. "People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-no-idea-what-a-hard-job-it-is-for-two-171057/.
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"People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-no-idea-what-a-hard-job-it-is-for-two-171057/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



