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"People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work"

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Friendship between writers sounds like a romantic little salon fantasy until the conversation turns professional, and then it becomes a minefield with footnotes. Anatole Broyard’s line is funny because it’s not really about writers at all; it’s about the impossible dream of keeping intimacy pure in a world where taste is a kind of power. “Hard job” lands with a shrugging, deadpan cadence, as if the labor were emotional and moral rather than logistical. The punch is in the inevitability: “Sooner or later” isn’t a warning, it’s a sentence.

Broyard understood criticism as a social act, not just an aesthetic one. To “talk about each other’s work” is to risk turning a friend into a subject, to let appraisal leak into affection. Writers trade in attention, status, and language itself; their “work” is often their identity in public. So the subtext is brutal: if you love someone and you are also trained to judge, you will eventually face a moment where honesty threatens kindness, and kindness threatens honesty.

As a critic, Broyard is also slyly implicating himself. Critics are paid to convert private reactions into public verdicts. Put that instinct inside a friendship and every compliment can sound strategic, every critique can feel like betrayal. The wit comes from how calmly he names the taboo: the hardest part isn’t rivalry, it’s disclosure. In that tiny “have to,” Broyard captures the coercive etiquette of literary culture, where silence reads as contempt and sincerity always carries risk.

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Broyard, Anatole. (2026, January 15). People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-no-idea-what-a-hard-job-it-is-for-two-171057/

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Broyard, Anatole. "People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-no-idea-what-a-hard-job-it-is-for-two-171057/.

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"People have no idea what a hard job it is for two writers to be friends. Sooner or later you have to talk about each other's work." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-no-idea-what-a-hard-job-it-is-for-two-171057/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Anatole Broyard (July 19, 1920 - October 11, 1990) was a Critic from USA.

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