"People have the right to call themselves whatever they like. That doesn't bother me. It's other people doing the calling that bothers me"
About this Quote
The line works because it refuses the bait of the usual culture-war binary. Butler doesn’t romanticize identity as pure self-expression, and she doesn’t mock it as vanity. She’s interested in power: who gets to define whom, under what conditions, and with what consequences. Naming becomes an instrument of control, a soft technology of coercion that can look like common sense. In her fiction, categories like race, gender, species, and “human” itself are never neutral descriptors; they’re weapons, passports, or cages depending on who’s holding them.
Context matters: Butler wrote as a Black woman in a literary world that routinely misread, re-shelved, and minimized her work, and as a science fiction author who understood how easily societies naturalize domination by renaming it order. The quote’s sting is its accuracy: self-identification is only half the story. The other half is what happens when institutions, media, and everyday strangers insist on a label that serves them more than it serves you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Respect |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Butler, Octavia. (2026, January 15). People have the right to call themselves whatever they like. That doesn't bother me. It's other people doing the calling that bothers me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-the-right-to-call-themselves-whatever-115610/
Chicago Style
Butler, Octavia. "People have the right to call themselves whatever they like. That doesn't bother me. It's other people doing the calling that bothers me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-the-right-to-call-themselves-whatever-115610/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People have the right to call themselves whatever they like. That doesn't bother me. It's other people doing the calling that bothers me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-the-right-to-call-themselves-whatever-115610/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








