"People have this obsession. They want you to be like you were in 1969. They want you to, because otherwise their youth goes with you. It's very selfish, but it's understandable"
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The intent is both self-defense and diagnosis. Jagger frames the pressure to remain “like you were” as an external obsession, not an artist’s choice. That matters: it shifts the responsibility from the performer’s supposed vanity to the audience’s need. The subtext is bracingly unsentimental for a rock icon. He calls it “selfish,” puncturing the romantic idea that fandom is purely love or loyalty. Fans aren’t only preserving the music; they’re preserving themselves.
Then he softens the blade: “understandable.” That last turn is the line’s cultural intelligence. Jagger isn’t moralizing; he’s acknowledging that pop culture functions as a time machine, and people cling to it when adulthood starts erasing the versions of themselves they liked best. The irony is that the Rolling Stones’ brand is movement and survival - touring, adapting, refusing to become a museum piece. Jagger’s point is that the museum impulse comes from us, not them.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jagger, Mick. (2026, January 17). People have this obsession. They want you to be like you were in 1969. They want you to, because otherwise their youth goes with you. It's very selfish, but it's understandable. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-this-obsession-they-want-you-to-be-58329/
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Jagger, Mick. "People have this obsession. They want you to be like you were in 1969. They want you to, because otherwise their youth goes with you. It's very selfish, but it's understandable." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-this-obsession-they-want-you-to-be-58329/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People have this obsession. They want you to be like you were in 1969. They want you to, because otherwise their youth goes with you. It's very selfish, but it's understandable." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-have-this-obsession-they-want-you-to-be-58329/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.









