"People make such a big deal about how people in bands look, especially if you're a girl"
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The phrasing “such a big deal” is doing quiet work. It’s casual, even a little weary, which makes the critique sharper: this isn’t a scandal, it’s the everyday background radiation of being a woman in a public-facing art form. “Especially if you’re a girl” lands as both diagnosis and indictment. It names the asymmetry without dressing it up in theory, which is why it hits: listeners recognize the pattern instantly, from reviews that describe men’s sound and women’s “vibe,” to interviews that pivot from songwriting to outfits, dating, and attitude.
Subtextually, Hatfield is defending artistic authority. The look-talk isn’t harmless gossip; it’s a way of relocating control from the musician to the audience, the label, the critic. By calling it out plainly, she’s refusing the bargain: you can’t demand authenticity from women in rock while treating their bodies as the real instrument.
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