"People may or may not say what they mean... but they always say something designed to get what they want"
About this Quote
The intent is almost clinical: strip conversation of its sentimental alibis. We like to treat talk as truth-telling with occasional detours; Mamet reverses it. The baseline is desire. Every line of dialogue is an attempt to move a situation one inch closer to advantage, safety, money, sex, status, forgiveness. Meaning becomes secondary to outcome.
The subtext is where the cynicism gets sharp. If “what they mean” is optional, sincerity is just another tactic, indistinguishable from deception in practice. That doesn’t make Mamet anti-truth so much as anti-naivete. He’s telling the audience to watch what people are doing to each other with words, not what they claim their words “are.”
Contextually, it’s pure Mamet: American capitalism’s verbal hustle, the salesman’s patter, the macho standoff where admitting need is losing. His characters speak in feints and fragments because power rarely announces itself cleanly. The quote works because it flatters no one; it implicates the speaker, too. If language is designed to get what we want, then every conversation is already a contest over whose wants get to count.
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Mamet, David. (n.d.). People may or may not say what they mean... but they always say something designed to get what they want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-may-or-may-not-say-what-they-mean-but-they-10176/
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Mamet, David. "People may or may not say what they mean... but they always say something designed to get what they want." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-may-or-may-not-say-what-they-mean-but-they-10176/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People may or may not say what they mean... but they always say something designed to get what they want." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-may-or-may-not-say-what-they-mean-but-they-10176/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









