"People need me. I fill them. If they can't see me for a while they get desperate, they get sick. But if I see them too often I get sick. It's hard to feed without getting fed"
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The subtext is a hostile intimacy. He wants to be necessary, yet he resents what that necessity demands: attention, performance, access. The "people" here aren’t a community; they’re an appetite with faces. Bukowski’s genius is making the transaction feel bodily. Art becomes feeding, and feeding becomes a risk of infection - emotional, psychic, alcoholic, whatever self-erasure the crowd asks for. That last sentence, "It's hard to feed without getting fed", is the bleak punchline: even the giver is hungry, even the cynic wants sustenance.
Context matters. Bukowski built a brand on outsider authenticity, writing from the gutter while becoming a cult object. The quote reads like a defensive memo from someone who knows his persona sells, knows the audience wants more of the raw stuff, and suspects the exchange will kill him if he doesn’t ration it. It’s not romance about art; it’s labor, dependency, and recoil.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). People need me. I fill them. If they can't see me for a while they get desperate, they get sick. But if I see them too often I get sick. It's hard to feed without getting fed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-need-me-i-fill-them-if-they-cant-see-me-185234/
Chicago Style
Bukowski, Charles. "People need me. I fill them. If they can't see me for a while they get desperate, they get sick. But if I see them too often I get sick. It's hard to feed without getting fed." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-need-me-i-fill-them-if-they-cant-see-me-185234/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People need me. I fill them. If they can't see me for a while they get desperate, they get sick. But if I see them too often I get sick. It's hard to feed without getting fed." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-need-me-i-fill-them-if-they-cant-see-me-185234/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





