"People often argue about this. Obviously one of the skills in performance is acting, and you can't expect every Romeo to really be in love with their Juliet!"
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The line works because it defends artifice without sounding defensive. Bull isn’t demoting love; she’s relocating it. In performance, the job is not to experience the emotion on schedule, eight shows a week, under hot lights, sometimes injured, sometimes exhausted. The job is to make an audience feel it anyway. That’s not cynicism; it’s craft. Her phrasing implies a wider misunderstanding: spectators (and critics) often confuse sincerity with quality, as if a performer’s private life should be the evidence log for what happens onstage.
As a dancer speaking, there’s an extra layer. Dance is often judged through the body’s apparent “truth,” which invites people to assume the dancer is simply “being” rather than doing. Bull pushes back: embodiment is constructed, repeatable, and disciplined. The subtext is a quiet defense of professionalism. The best Romeo doesn’t need to be in love; he needs to be reliable, legible, and persuasive. That’s the real romance: the audience believes because the performer can.
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Bull, Deborah. (2026, January 15). People often argue about this. Obviously one of the skills in performance is acting, and you can't expect every Romeo to really be in love with their Juliet! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-argue-about-this-obviously-one-of-143668/
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Bull, Deborah. "People often argue about this. Obviously one of the skills in performance is acting, and you can't expect every Romeo to really be in love with their Juliet!" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-argue-about-this-obviously-one-of-143668/.
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"People often argue about this. Obviously one of the skills in performance is acting, and you can't expect every Romeo to really be in love with their Juliet!" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-argue-about-this-obviously-one-of-143668/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




