"People often refer to my career before The Crying Game as something which led up to that point. But I was very fulfilled in what I was doing"
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The intent is defensive without sounding bitter. Rea isn’t denying the film’s impact; he’s rejecting the careerist mythology that fulfillment only arrives when the spotlight does. There’s a classically actorly pride here - not in fame, but in work. “Very fulfilled” is doing heavy lifting: it reframes success as interior and professional rather than public and commercial. He’s protecting the dignity of roles that didn’t come with awards-season oxygen, and by extension, the theater, small films, and television work that sustain artists long before a cultural “moment” crowns them.
The subtext also carries a pointed critique of how audiences and journalists retroactively rewrite lives. Once a breakout happens, every earlier choice gets interpreted as strategic ladder-climbing, as if the only valid trajectory is upward toward prestige. Rea’s line insists on a messier truth: careers aren’t always quests; sometimes they’re habitats. It’s a statement against the tyranny of the breakthrough - and a reminder that recognition is often late, while meaning can be on time.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rea, Stephen. (2026, January 16). People often refer to my career before The Crying Game as something which led up to that point. But I was very fulfilled in what I was doing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-refer-to-my-career-before-the-crying-112887/
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Rea, Stephen. "People often refer to my career before The Crying Game as something which led up to that point. But I was very fulfilled in what I was doing." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-refer-to-my-career-before-the-crying-112887/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People often refer to my career before The Crying Game as something which led up to that point. But I was very fulfilled in what I was doing." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-refer-to-my-career-before-the-crying-112887/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




