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Leadership Quote by Robert Kennedy

"People say I am ruthless. I am not ruthless. And if I find the man who is calling me ruthless, I shall destroy him"

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Kennedy’s line lands like a grin with teeth: a denial that immediately performs the very trait it rejects. “I am not ruthless” is staged as moral self-defense, the kind a public figure needs when enemies are working the “cold operator” angle. Then comes the snap turn: “if I find the man...I shall destroy him.” It’s not just a joke; it’s a warning delivered with comic timing. The sentence weaponizes hyperbole to control the frame: you can call me ruthless, but I get to define what ruthlessness looks like, and I can outdo your accusation on demand.

The subtext is pure power politics with a Catholic sheen of righteousness. Kennedy isn’t confessing to cruelty; he’s asserting loyalty and ferocity as virtues, especially in a world where soft men are eaten alive. “Destroy” is the telling verb. Not “prove him wrong,” not “set the record straight” - annihilation, as if reputation is a battlefield and criticism is a combatant. That choice reveals the era’s masculine code of honor, when political combat was treated like personal combat, and press narratives were existential threats.

Context matters: Robert Kennedy operated in a family brand built on discipline, vengeance for slights, and a near-theatrical sense of moral mission. As Attorney General and later as a senator, he was both reformer and enforcer, celebrated for taking on organized crime and despised for the same relentless methods. The quote works because it admits nothing while signaling everything: he may deny ruthlessness, but he wants you to believe he’s capable of it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kennedy, Robert. (n.d.). People say I am ruthless. I am not ruthless. And if I find the man who is calling me ruthless, I shall destroy him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-say-i-am-ruthless-i-am-not-ruthless-and-if-25645/

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Kennedy, Robert. "People say I am ruthless. I am not ruthless. And if I find the man who is calling me ruthless, I shall destroy him." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-say-i-am-ruthless-i-am-not-ruthless-and-if-25645/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People say I am ruthless. I am not ruthless. And if I find the man who is calling me ruthless, I shall destroy him." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-say-i-am-ruthless-i-am-not-ruthless-and-if-25645/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Robert Kennedy (November 20, 1925 - June 6, 1968) was a Politician from USA.

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