"People should realize we're jerks just like them"
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The specific intent is corrective: don’t confuse competence with character. The “should realize” isn’t casual, it’s admonishing. He’s pushing back against the way audiences outsource judgment to credentialed figures, then act betrayed when those figures reveal ordinary pettiness, vanity, or blind spots. “Jerks” is doing strategic work here: it’s blunt, slightly comic, and socially leveling. Not “flawed,” not “imperfect,” but the everyday word you use when you’re fed up with someone’s self-importance. That choice prevents the quote from becoming a moral lecture; it stays in the realm of lived experience.
The subtext is both defensive and democratic. Defensive, because any public intellectual gets mythologized and then punished for failing the myth. Democratic, because de Bono is insisting that thinking is not a rare bloodline; it’s a practice, and the people practicing it are still human animals with bad moods and ugly incentives. It’s also a quiet warning about guru culture: if you need your thinkers to be saints, you’ll end up choosing saints over thinkers.
Contextually, it reads like late-career realism from someone who watched ideas become brands. He punctures the brand from the inside, reminding us that insight doesn’t redeem you; it just equips you.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bono, Edward de. (2026, January 17). People should realize we're jerks just like them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-should-realize-were-jerks-just-like-them-66989/
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Bono, Edward de. "People should realize we're jerks just like them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-should-realize-were-jerks-just-like-them-66989/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People should realize we're jerks just like them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-should-realize-were-jerks-just-like-them-66989/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








