"People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them"
About this Quote
The intent is practical but the subtext is thornier. Sheehan frames disclosure as a reward for shared experience, yet that “because” contains an ethical tension: intimacy can be both a method and a seduction. Sources “opening up” can be a gift to the public, but it can also create a sense of obligation, a soft pressure to tell the story in a way that honors the bond. His phrasing stays modest - “I think” twice - as if to signal awareness that access is never purely deserved; it’s negotiated, contingent, and sometimes granted for reasons sources themselves can’t fully name.
Context matters: Sheehan’s career is tied to Vietnam and to documents that reshaped public understanding of state power and deception. In that world, papers and diaries aren’t props; they’re ammunition and confession at once. The quote captures the paradox of serious journalism at its best: the biggest revelations often arrive not through interrogation, but through recognition - a shared scar that convinces someone you’ll tell the truth without treating their life like raw material.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sheehan, Neil. (2026, January 16). People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-talked-to-me-in-a-way-i-think-they-would-128084/
Chicago Style
Sheehan, Neil. "People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-talked-to-me-in-a-way-i-think-they-would-128084/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-talked-to-me-in-a-way-i-think-they-would-128084/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.



