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Daily Inspiration Quote by Neil Sheehan

"People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them"

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Trust is the real currency in reporting, and Sheehan is blunt about how he earned it: not by credential, but by proximity to consequence. The line quietly dismantles the myth of the journalist as a neutral, floating observer. He’s describing access that comes from having been inside the weather system - war, bureaucracy, fear, moral injury - long enough to be recognized by the people living it. When sources hand over diaries, they’re not just sharing information; they’re transferring custody of their private record, betting that the recipient will carry it with a kind of care outsiders rarely inspire.

The intent is practical but the subtext is thornier. Sheehan frames disclosure as a reward for shared experience, yet that “because” contains an ethical tension: intimacy can be both a method and a seduction. Sources “opening up” can be a gift to the public, but it can also create a sense of obligation, a soft pressure to tell the story in a way that honors the bond. His phrasing stays modest - “I think” twice - as if to signal awareness that access is never purely deserved; it’s negotiated, contingent, and sometimes granted for reasons sources themselves can’t fully name.

Context matters: Sheehan’s career is tied to Vietnam and to documents that reshaped public understanding of state power and deception. In that world, papers and diaries aren’t props; they’re ammunition and confession at once. The quote captures the paradox of serious journalism at its best: the biggest revelations often arrive not through interrogation, but through recognition - a shared scar that convinces someone you’ll tell the truth without treating their life like raw material.

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Sheehan, Neil. (2026, January 16). People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-talked-to-me-in-a-way-i-think-they-would-128084/

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Sheehan, Neil. "People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-talked-to-me-in-a-way-i-think-they-would-128084/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People talked to me in a way I think they would not have talked to somebody who hadn't shared the experience; they gave me their papers, they gave me their diaries. I found people constantly opening up to me. And I think they did because I had shared that experience with them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-talked-to-me-in-a-way-i-think-they-would-128084/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Neil Sheehan (October 27, 1936 - January 7, 2021) was a Journalist from USA.

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