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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mort Sahl

"People tell me there are a lot of guys like me, which doesn't explain why I'm lonely"

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Mort Sahl’s line is built like a heckler’s comeback to an entire era’s self-help culture. “There are a lot of guys like me” is what friends say when they’re trying to be comforting, to normalize someone’s oddness or alienation. Sahl snaps the logic shut: if likeness is so abundant, why does it still feel like scarcity? The joke isn’t just that the reassurance fails; it’s that it reveals how cheap and social-conventioned reassurance can be. Being “one of many” doesn’t produce belonging. It can even sharpen the ache, because it implies your loneliness is a solvable math problem and you’re the one who can’t do the arithmetic.

The intent is classic Sahl: puncture the pieties with a single, clean contradiction. He’s mocking the American faith that identity categories automatically yield community, that demographic “type” equals a ready-made tribe. The subtext is darker: modern life can make people statistically common and emotionally isolated at the same time. You can be surrounded by your supposed peers and still feel untranslated.

Context matters because Sahl’s voice came out of mid-century urban anonymity and the rise of mass media, where people were increasingly described by labels, trends, and cohorts. The line anticipates a very current problem: the difference between being legible and being loved. You can be perfectly classifiable and still unchosen. That’s why it works: it turns a consoling cliché into an indictment of how we outsource intimacy to generalities.

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TopicLoneliness
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sahl, Mort. (2026, January 16). People tell me there are a lot of guys like me, which doesn't explain why I'm lonely. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-tell-me-there-are-a-lot-of-guys-like-me-134227/

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Sahl, Mort. "People tell me there are a lot of guys like me, which doesn't explain why I'm lonely." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-tell-me-there-are-a-lot-of-guys-like-me-134227/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People tell me there are a lot of guys like me, which doesn't explain why I'm lonely." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-tell-me-there-are-a-lot-of-guys-like-me-134227/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mort Sahl (born May 11, 1927) is a Journalist from Canada.

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