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Daily Inspiration Quote by David Brudnoy

"People tend to overstate my resilience, but, of course, I hope they're right"

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There is a quiet booby trap in that line: it flatters the public’s appetite for the “fighter” narrative while refusing to fully play along. Brudnoy is puncturing the feel-good myth that resilience is a personality trait you can simply possess in heroic quantities, like charisma. “People tend to overstate” is a gentle correction, but it’s also a protest against being turned into a mascot for perseverance.

The second clause twists the knife with understatement. “But, of course, I hope they’re right” admits need without begging for it. He doesn’t deny the comfort others take in imagining him unbreakable; he just reveals the bargain underneath it. When an audience insists you’re resilient, they’re not only complimenting you, they’re offloading their own fear onto your supposed strength. If you can handle it, they don’t have to reckon with how fragile bodies and lives really are.

As an entertainer, Brudnoy would have understood performance as both craft and shield. The line reads like someone who has spent years being “on” for people - witty, composed, game - while privately negotiating pain. The form is almost conversational, even breezy, but the subtext is a small, hard truth: resilience is often something other people assign you because they need the story to end well. His hope isn’t optimism; it’s survival talking, clear-eyed and unsentimental.

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Brudnoy, David. (n.d.). People tend to overstate my resilience, but, of course, I hope they're right. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-tend-to-overstate-my-resilience-but-of-147582/

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Brudnoy, David. "People tend to overstate my resilience, but, of course, I hope they're right." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-tend-to-overstate-my-resilience-but-of-147582/.

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David Brudnoy (June 5, 1940 - December 8, 2004) was a Entertainer from USA.

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