"People think, 'Wow, you're an actress, so people must be really nice to you and kiss your ass.' NOBODY kisses my ass"
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Her intent reads less like self-pity than a credibility play. Actors are often trapped between being seen as pampered and being scolded for wanting normal respect. By insisting “NOBODY kisses my ass,” she’s rejecting the idea that her career buys automatic deference, while also hinting at the opposite: the industry’s power dynamics skew upward, toward producers, studios, directors, and publicists who expect the ass-kissing to flow in one direction.
The subtext is gendered, too. “People must be really nice to you” carries the soft-focus assumption that a successful woman is cushioned by flattery. Silverstone’s hard-edged denial suggests a workplace where “nice” is transactional, admiration is temporary, and attention can flip into dismissal the moment you’re not the hot commodity.
Contextually, it’s a corrective to the culture’s resentful fascination with celebrity privilege. She’s not asking to be worshipped; she’s arguing she’s not exempt from being undervalued, managed, and brushed aside. The punchline lands because it refuses glamour and replaces it with something more believable: status is unstable, and fame doesn’t eliminate hierarchy, it just rearranges it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Silverstone, Alicia. (2026, January 17). People think, 'Wow, you're an actress, so people must be really nice to you and kiss your ass.' NOBODY kisses my ass. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-think-wow-youre-an-actress-so-people-must-38187/
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Silverstone, Alicia. "People think, 'Wow, you're an actress, so people must be really nice to you and kiss your ass.' NOBODY kisses my ass." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-think-wow-youre-an-actress-so-people-must-38187/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People think, 'Wow, you're an actress, so people must be really nice to you and kiss your ass.' NOBODY kisses my ass." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-think-wow-youre-an-actress-so-people-must-38187/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








