"People want what they can’t have. People want what other people want. People want things that are going away"
About this Quote
The first sentence targets the core seduction of the unattainable. “Can’t have” isn’t just material limitation; it’s the thrill of closed doors, the way exclusivity turns indifference into obsession. The second tightens the screw: people don’t simply chase objects, they chase other people’s attention. That’s desire as a social contagion, where value is assigned by crowd behavior, not inherent quality. It’s the Instagram economy in one line: the thing is desirable because it’s being desired.
The third sentence is the entrepreneur’s favorite lever, and the most ethically loaded. “Going away” invokes urgency - the countdown timer, the “last chance” email, the limited drop. It works because brains hate regret more than they love satisfaction. The subtext: if you can control perceived scarcity, you can steer behavior.
Context matters: Hormozi speaks from the world of offers, funnels, and conversion. He’s not pretending to be a poet; he’s describing a reliable pattern he’s profited from. The real bite is that he’s also describing us - how easily our “preferences” are shaped by what we’re denied, what’s trending, and what’s about to disappear.
Quote Details
| Topic | Deep |
|---|---|
| Source | $100M Offers: How to Make Offers So Good People Feel Stupid Saying No (2021) , Notable quote included in a published summary |
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"People want what they can’t have. People want what other people want. People want things that are going away." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-want-what-they-cant-have-people-want-what-183995/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.








