"People would get up and leave so they would not have to sit anywhere near me"
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White’s specific intent is blunt testimony. He’s naming the social choreography that followed him once he was publicly identified as HIV-positive in the mid-1980s, when panic about AIDS was fueled by misinformation and moral judgment. The cruelty here is procedural: people “would get up and leave” as if following a sensible protocol. That’s the subtext - fear masquerading as practicality, disgust disguised as hygiene. He doesn’t even grant them individuality; they’re a faceless “people,” a crowd acting on instinct and rumor.
What makes the sentence work is its careful plainness. No accusation, no editorializing, just the stark image of abandonment. That restraint forces the reader to supply the indictment: if someone has to watch strangers repeatedly flee his proximity, the social failure is communal, not personal. It also shows how isolation is manufactured. You don’t have to be barred from the room to be expelled from it; all it takes is everyone else choosing another seat.
Coming from a teenager who became a national symbol, the line doubles as cultural snapshot and moral receipt: a record of how a country treated a kid when science lagged behind fear.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
White, Ryan. (2026, January 16). People would get up and leave so they would not have to sit anywhere near me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-would-get-up-and-leave-so-they-would-not-112989/
Chicago Style
White, Ryan. "People would get up and leave so they would not have to sit anywhere near me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-would-get-up-and-leave-so-they-would-not-112989/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People would get up and leave so they would not have to sit anywhere near me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-would-get-up-and-leave-so-they-would-not-112989/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





