"Perhaps all the dragons of our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us once beautiful and brave"
About this Quote
The fairy-tale swap (dragon to princess) isn’t just clever imagery; it smuggles in a theory of fear. Dragons guard thresholds. They appear where you’re about to change, where desire and dread meet. By calling them “princesses,” Rilke suggests that the frightening thing is also the thing that wants to be approached, integrated, understood. Not conquered. Seen.
Then comes the sharper subtext: “waiting to see us once beautiful and brave.” The transformation is conditional, and the condition is ours. The dragon doesn’t change because we strike harder; it changes because we arrive differently. “Beautiful” here isn’t aesthetic polish; it’s a kind of inner coherence. “Brave” isn’t swagger; it’s the willingness to stay present with what repels you.
Context helps. Rilke’s letters and poems circle the idea that terror and awe are adjacent, that the task of a life is learning how to “live the questions.” This sentence compresses that project into a mythic micro-drama: your fears are not random attackers. They’re stalled possibilities, waiting for a self sturdy enough to meet them without violence.
Quote Details
| Topic | Reinvention |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Briefe an einen jungen Dichter (Letters to a Young Poet) (Rainer Maria Rilke, 1904)
Evidence: Wie sollten wir jener alten Mythen vergessen können, die am Anfange aller Völker stehen, der Mythen von den Drachen, die sich im äußersten Augenblick in Prinzessinnen verwandeln; vielleicht sind alle Drachen unseres Lebens Prinzessinnen, die nur darauf warten, uns einmal schön und mutig zu sehen. (Letter 8 (dated 12 August 1904); page varies by edition/translation). Your attributed wording (“Perhaps all the dragons of our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us once beautiful and brave”) is a shortened/normalized English rendering of a passage in Rilke’s 8th letter to Franz Xaver Kappus (dated 12 August 1904). The primary-source text above is the German original as presented by rilke.de. The letters themselves were written 1903–1908; they were first published as a collected book after Rilke’s death under the title “Briefe an einen jungen Dichter” by Insel Verlag in 1929 (compiled/edited by Kappus). Other candidates (1) Healing the Heart of the World (Dawson Church, 2010) compilation95.5% ... Perhaps all the dragons of our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us once beautiful and brave , ” s... |
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