"Personally, I have no bone to pick with graveyards"
About this Quote
"No bone to pick" is the real trapdoor. It’s an idiom about grievance, but in a graveyard bones are literal inventory. Beckett’s pun isn’t decorative; it’s an exposure of how language keeps trying to domesticate the unspeakable. We manage mortality through phrases that pretend the subject is negotiable, that death is just another opinion. The line’s comic cleanliness becomes its existential indictment: if you can’t argue with a graveyard, you can’t argue with the terms of being alive.
Context matters: Beckett writes out of a postwar Europe where mass death has made traditional solemnity feel either inadequate or obscene. His theater repeatedly stages the human urge to keep talking when meaning has collapsed. Here, the speaker’s "no bone to pick" reads like a minimal truce with the inevitable, a shrug masquerading as civility. Beckett isn’t offering comfort. He’s showing how, faced with the grave, our best defense may be a joke that knows it isn’t strong enough.
Quote Details
| Topic | Dark Humor |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: First Love (Samuel Beckett, 1973)
Evidence: Personally I have no bone to pick with graveyards, I take the air there willingly, perhaps more willingly than elsewhere, when take the air I must. (Page 8). This line appears in Samuel Beckett’s short story "First Love" (Beckett’s own English translation). The earliest publication is actually the French original "Premier amour" (written 1946; first published 1970, Éditions de Minuit), but the English wording you supplied corresponds to the 1973 English publication. Many secondary references quote it without the rest of the sentence; the full sentence above is the original text as printed in "First Love". The page number is given as p. 8 in several references (including an excerpted online text that marks page breaks). Primary-source verification beyond this excerpt (i.e., scanning the 1973 Calder and Boyars edition or the 1994 Penguin/Syrens edition) would be ideal for a courtroom-level citation, but the work/title and page location are consistently attributed to "First Love". Other candidates (1) The Weight Of Compassion (Countess of Fingall Elizabeth, 2012) compilation95.0% ... Sam to his father , disguise the sorrow and sadness that must inevitably have affected Beckett on these visits to... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Beckett, Samuel. (2026, February 16). Personally, I have no bone to pick with graveyards. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/personally-i-have-no-bone-to-pick-with-graveyards-17510/
Chicago Style
Beckett, Samuel. "Personally, I have no bone to pick with graveyards." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/personally-i-have-no-bone-to-pick-with-graveyards-17510/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Personally, I have no bone to pick with graveyards." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/personally-i-have-no-bone-to-pick-with-graveyards-17510/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







