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Love Quote by Connie Stevens

"Pet me, touch me, love me, that's what I get when I perform. That's when I'm really getting what I want"

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What sounds like a cheeky plea is really a clear-eyed admission about the economy of attention: performance as a socially acceptable way to ask for intimacy. Connie Stevens frames the audience relationship in tactile verbs, not abstract praise. "Pet me, touch me, love me" collapses applause into contact, exposing how fame can turn emotional need into a transaction that feels consensual because everyone knows the script.

The intent isn’t to scandalize; it’s to name the payoff. "That’s what I get when I perform" makes affection the wage, not a bonus. In mid-century show business - especially for actresses trained to be radiant, agreeable, and perpetually available - validation wasn’t just personal; it was professional. The culture rewarded women who could translate charm into devotion, then pretend it came effortlessly. Stevens drops the pretense. She’s not claiming art as transcendence. She’s describing it as a reliable mechanism for being wanted.

The subtext is thornier: if love is best accessed through performing, what happens when the lights go down? The line hints at dependence, even a kind of hunger, but it also reads as pragmatic self-knowledge. She’s articulating the performer’s bargain: you offer a version of yourself that’s legible and desirable, and the crowd returns warmth you can’t easily demand in ordinary life.

It works because it’s both disarming and bleak - a confession delivered with showbiz breeziness, letting the truth land without begging for sympathy.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stevens, Connie. (2026, January 17). Pet me, touch me, love me, that's what I get when I perform. That's when I'm really getting what I want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pet-me-touch-me-love-me-thats-what-i-get-when-i-49945/

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Stevens, Connie. "Pet me, touch me, love me, that's what I get when I perform. That's when I'm really getting what I want." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pet-me-touch-me-love-me-thats-what-i-get-when-i-49945/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Pet me, touch me, love me, that's what I get when I perform. That's when I'm really getting what I want." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pet-me-touch-me-love-me-thats-what-i-get-when-i-49945/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Connie Stevens

Connie Stevens (born August 8, 1938) is a Actress from USA.

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