"Phil has always been a fighter. He was getting in fights all the time. I told him that if he ever hit me then I would leave the band. He wanted to find out if I was telling him the truth. He hit me so I left and that is how UFO split up"
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The key move is the ultimatum: “if he ever hit me then I would leave the band.” That’s not melodrama; it’s Schenker trying to impose a rule in a culture that often treats rules as weakness. Then comes the chilling line: “He wanted to find out if I was telling him the truth.” Violence here isn’t just loss of control, it’s a test, a way to assert dominance and measure how far the other person can be pushed. The subtext is that bands don’t only break up over music. They break up over whether basic respect is negotiable.
Schenker’s blunt sequencing - he hit me so I left - reads almost like a contract being executed. No bargaining, no legend-building, no “we worked it out.” That matters. Rock history is crowded with stories where endurance gets reframed as authenticity. Schenker refuses that framing; he draws a straight line from abuse to consequence. “That is how UFO split up” turns a messy interpersonal rupture into a simple causality, which is its own kind of narrative control: he’s not inviting debate about egos or creative differences. He’s naming the moment the band stopped being a band and became a liability.
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| Topic | Broken Friendship |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schenker, Michael. (2026, January 15). Phil has always been a fighter. He was getting in fights all the time. I told him that if he ever hit me then I would leave the band. He wanted to find out if I was telling him the truth. He hit me so I left and that is how UFO split up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/phil-has-always-been-a-fighter-he-was-getting-in-158930/
Chicago Style
Schenker, Michael. "Phil has always been a fighter. He was getting in fights all the time. I told him that if he ever hit me then I would leave the band. He wanted to find out if I was telling him the truth. He hit me so I left and that is how UFO split up." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/phil-has-always-been-a-fighter-he-was-getting-in-158930/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Phil has always been a fighter. He was getting in fights all the time. I told him that if he ever hit me then I would leave the band. He wanted to find out if I was telling him the truth. He hit me so I left and that is how UFO split up." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/phil-has-always-been-a-fighter-he-was-getting-in-158930/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.
