"Pianists don't argue too much generally because we have such a hard time just getting things right; arguing is for string players"
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The intent is disarming. In classical music, ego is the uninvited third player in every duo, and Ax knows how to neutralize it. By pretending pianists are too overwhelmed to argue, he casts humility as a kind of professionalism. It’s funny because it’s partly true: the piano’s sheer mechanical complexity and merciless exposure (every note percussive, every mistake instantly audible) can force a particular brand of inwardness. That “hard time just getting things right” isn’t self-pity; it’s a wink at the instrument’s unforgiving demand for total control.
Then comes the jab: “arguing is for string players.” Anyone who’s sat through rehearsals recognizes the stereotype of string players litigating bowings, phrasing, and fingerings like parliamentary procedure. Pianists, especially collaborative ones, often arrive as both partner and infrastructure: they bring the harmony, the rhythm, the reduced orchestra. That role can make them less likely to pick fights and more likely to keep the machine moving.
Subtextually, Ax is defending an ideal of musicianship that prizes listening over dominance. He’s also signaling membership in a culture where rivalry is constant, but civility can be a strategy: the best way to win the room is to make everyone laugh while you take the high road.
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Ax, Emanuel. (2026, January 16). Pianists don't argue too much generally because we have such a hard time just getting things right; arguing is for string players. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pianists-dont-argue-too-much-generally-because-we-104567/
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Ax, Emanuel. "Pianists don't argue too much generally because we have such a hard time just getting things right; arguing is for string players." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pianists-dont-argue-too-much-generally-because-we-104567/.
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"Pianists don't argue too much generally because we have such a hard time just getting things right; arguing is for string players." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pianists-dont-argue-too-much-generally-because-we-104567/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.


