"Pick your enemies carefully or you'll never make it in Los Angeles"
About this Quote
Barrett knew this terrain from the control room of celebrity culture. As a journalist and gossip mainstay, she operated in a world where information moves through gatekeepers, favors, and carefully managed leaks. “Pick” is the tell: enemies aren’t just stumbled into, they’re curated. That’s the subtext of a media-industrial complex where public narratives are negotiated, and the line between reporting and participating is thin. You don’t “cover” Hollywood without also becoming part of its circuitry.
The bite of the quote is its reversal of the standard self-help LA myth. The city sells itself as networking heaven, all sunshine and connections; Barrett points to the shadow network: rivalries, blacklists, whispered warnings, strategic snubs. She’s also smuggling in a cynical truth about power: being too universally liked can read as unserious, while having visible opposition can signal that you matter enough to threaten someone.
It’s a journalist’s aphorism with an operator’s edge: survival isn’t about avoiding conflict, it’s about making sure the conflict you’re in doesn’t swallow your career.
Quote Details
| Topic | Career |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barrett, Rona. (2026, January 15). Pick your enemies carefully or you'll never make it in Los Angeles. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pick-your-enemies-carefully-or-youll-never-make-169689/
Chicago Style
Barrett, Rona. "Pick your enemies carefully or you'll never make it in Los Angeles." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pick-your-enemies-carefully-or-youll-never-make-169689/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Pick your enemies carefully or you'll never make it in Los Angeles." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pick-your-enemies-carefully-or-youll-never-make-169689/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







