"Play not with paradoxes. That caustic which you handle in order to scorch others may happen to sear your own fingers and make them dead to the quality of things"
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The subtext is a critique of the pose of superiority that comes with perpetual irony. If you wield paradox to humiliate, to reduce people’s beliefs to a gotcha, you train yourself to see everything as flimsy and reversible. That posture can feel liberating (nothing is sacred, everything is debunkable), but Eliot suggests it quietly amputates a deeper faculty: the ability to perceive “quality” - the texture of motives, the seriousness of commitments, the difference between sincere conviction and performative certainty. You don’t just burn others; you cauterize your own moral nerves.
Context matters: Eliot wrote in a Victorian culture thick with religious doubt, scientific upheaval, and fashionable skepticism. As a novelist committed to psychological realism and ethical consequence, she’s pushing back against salon cynicism and the seductive swagger of contrarian brilliance. The line reads like an anti-edgelord manifesto from the 19th century: skepticism is necessary, but if your intellect becomes mainly an acid used for sport, you may end up incapable of tenderness, reverence, or even accurate judgment.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Eliot, George. (2026, January 15). Play not with paradoxes. That caustic which you handle in order to scorch others may happen to sear your own fingers and make them dead to the quality of things. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/play-not-with-paradoxes-that-caustic-which-you-28248/
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Eliot, George. "Play not with paradoxes. That caustic which you handle in order to scorch others may happen to sear your own fingers and make them dead to the quality of things." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/play-not-with-paradoxes-that-caustic-which-you-28248/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Play not with paradoxes. That caustic which you handle in order to scorch others may happen to sear your own fingers and make them dead to the quality of things." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/play-not-with-paradoxes-that-caustic-which-you-28248/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







