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Happiness Quote by Marvin J. Ashton

"Pleasure usually takes the form of me and now; joy is us and always"

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A clergyman’s neatest trick is to make morality sound less like a scold and more like a map. Marvin J. Ashton does it here by drawing a bright, almost cinematic line: pleasure as a close-up, joy as a wide shot. “Me and now” isn’t just selfishness; it’s shrinkage. The self becomes the whole frame, time collapses into appetite, and the world is reduced to whatever can be grabbed or consumed before the feeling fades. He’s not condemning pleasure as dirty so much as labeling it as short-range, privatized, and easily habituated.

Then comes the pivot that gives the sentence its sermon-strength: “us and always.” Ashton’s joy isn’t an intensified pleasure; it’s a different social technology. It’s built on relationship, obligation, shared memory - the stuff that outlasts the spike. “Us” quietly implies covenant: family, community, even God. “Always” is the theological wager, pointing past mood into meaning, past novelty into fidelity. Joy, in this framing, is less a sensation than a durable orientation, the emotional byproduct of lives braided together.

The intent is pastoral and corrective, likely aimed at a late-20th-century culture increasingly fluent in instant gratification, consumer choice, and private desire. The subtext is that modern life trains us to chase feelings while starving the conditions that make people lastingly happy: service, belonging, sacrifice, continuity. Ashton offers a moral contrast that’s simple enough to remember, sharp enough to sting, and generous enough to feel like an invitation rather than a verdict.

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Ashton, Marvin J. (2026, January 14). Pleasure usually takes the form of me and now; joy is us and always. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pleasure-usually-takes-the-form-of-me-and-now-joy-162272/

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Ashton, Marvin J. "Pleasure usually takes the form of me and now; joy is us and always." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pleasure-usually-takes-the-form-of-me-and-now-joy-162272/.

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"Pleasure usually takes the form of me and now; joy is us and always." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pleasure-usually-takes-the-form-of-me-and-now-joy-162272/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Marvin J. Ashton (May 6, 1915 - February 25, 1994) was a Clergyman from USA.

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