"Possession without obligation to the object possessed approaches felicity"
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The subtext is a critique of a culture that wraps appetite in etiquette. Victorian respectability preached stewardship - husbands toward wives, aristocrats toward tenants, empire toward colonies - while quietly enjoying the asymmetry those relationships guaranteed. Meredith's sentence is a pressure test: if the obligation disappears, do we discover a purer joy or simply a more honest selfishness? The phrase "to the object possessed" is chillingly clinical. It turns the beloved into a thing, the thing into a silent claimant, and then imagines the owner's bliss at being free of that claim.
As a novelist attuned to desire and hypocrisy, Meredith is probing the psychology of entitlement: the dream that you can have something and not be changed by it, responsible for it, or answerable to it. He sketches the temptation underpinning exploitation - the wish to take without being tethered - and lets "felicity" glitter just enough to reveal how dangerous that wish can be.
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Meredith, George. (2026, January 17). Possession without obligation to the object possessed approaches felicity. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/possession-without-obligation-to-the-object-53470/
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Meredith, George. "Possession without obligation to the object possessed approaches felicity." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/possession-without-obligation-to-the-object-53470/.
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"Possession without obligation to the object possessed approaches felicity." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/possession-without-obligation-to-the-object-53470/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










