"Praise the bridge that carried you over"
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Gratitude rarely looks as sleek as ambition, which is why Colman’s line lands like a quiet reprimand. “Praise the bridge that carried you over” isn’t a Hallmark nudge to say thank you; it’s stagecraft aimed at a very specific human failing: the urge to treat help as scaffolding you kick away once you’ve climbed.
The genius is in the metaphor’s economy. A bridge is temporary in our attention but permanent in its labor. You don’t admire it while crossing; you admire the view on the other side. Colman flips the camera back to the structure and, by doing so, exposes the moral sleight-of-hand in self-mythologizing. Success stories often edit out the middlemen: teachers, patrons, friends who made introductions, institutions that took a chance, even sheer luck. “Carried you over” insists you were borne, not purely self-propelled, undercutting the heroic narrative without sounding preachy.
As a dramatist, Colman is attuned to social performance: who gets credited, who gets forgotten, who gets used. The line doubles as advice and warning. Praise isn’t just etiquette; it’s a check against ingratitude’s favorite companion, arrogance. It also hints at reciprocity: today’s bridge was built by someone, and tomorrow you may be asked to be one. The subtext is bluntly political in any era that worships the “self-made” while relying on invisible infrastructure.
The genius is in the metaphor’s economy. A bridge is temporary in our attention but permanent in its labor. You don’t admire it while crossing; you admire the view on the other side. Colman flips the camera back to the structure and, by doing so, exposes the moral sleight-of-hand in self-mythologizing. Success stories often edit out the middlemen: teachers, patrons, friends who made introductions, institutions that took a chance, even sheer luck. “Carried you over” insists you were borne, not purely self-propelled, undercutting the heroic narrative without sounding preachy.
As a dramatist, Colman is attuned to social performance: who gets credited, who gets forgotten, who gets used. The line doubles as advice and warning. Praise isn’t just etiquette; it’s a check against ingratitude’s favorite companion, arrogance. It also hints at reciprocity: today’s bridge was built by someone, and tomorrow you may be asked to be one. The subtext is bluntly political in any era that worships the “self-made” while relying on invisible infrastructure.
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| Topic | Gratitude |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: The dramatic works of George Colman the younger: The heir... (George Colman, 1823)ID: to80AAAAMAAJ
Evidence: George Colman. all Gosport . You hold a merchant as cheap as if he trotted about with all his property in a pack ... praise the bridge that carried you over ; but you must drop now the tradesman , and learn life . Consider , by the ... Other candidates (1) George Colman the Younger (George Colman) compilation95.0% ion sylvester daggerwood 1795 act i sc x praise the bridge that carried you over |
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