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Daily Inspiration Quote by William Ralph Inge

"Prayer gives a man the opportunity of getting to know a gentleman he hardly ever meets. I do not mean his maker, but himself"

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Prayer, in Inge's hands, isn’t a hotline to heaven so much as a brutally well-lit mirror. The line pivots on a neat bait-and-switch: you expect the familiar clerical move toward God, then he yanks the focus back to the one person a busy, self-protective life keeps conveniently out of view. Calling the self “a gentleman” is the sly stroke. It flatters you into the room, then implies you’ve been a poor host to your own conscience. Prayer becomes etiquette: sit down, be civil, listen.

Inge wrote as an Anglican thinker in an era when modernity was accelerating distraction and deflating certainty. Psychology was giving people new vocabularies for the interior life, and public religion was starting to feel like either social habit or doctrinal trench warfare. This quote slips between those poles. It rescues prayer from metaphysical debate by reframing it as self-knowledge with moral stakes. That’s also the cleric’s quiet provocation: the easiest religious error isn’t disbelief, it’s outsourcing your inner life to slogans, rituals, or other people’s piety.

The subtext is sharper than it looks. If you “hardly ever meet” yourself, you’re likely living on performance, impulse, or borrowed identity. Prayer, then, is not consolation but encounter: a scheduled interruption of self-deception. Inge’s intent isn’t to demote God; it’s to suggest that any honest approach to God starts with the awkward, bracing task of becoming intelligible to yourself.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Inge, William Ralph. (2026, January 18). Prayer gives a man the opportunity of getting to know a gentleman he hardly ever meets. I do not mean his maker, but himself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/prayer-gives-a-man-the-opportunity-of-getting-to-15942/

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Inge, William Ralph. "Prayer gives a man the opportunity of getting to know a gentleman he hardly ever meets. I do not mean his maker, but himself." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/prayer-gives-a-man-the-opportunity-of-getting-to-15942/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Prayer gives a man the opportunity of getting to know a gentleman he hardly ever meets. I do not mean his maker, but himself." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/prayer-gives-a-man-the-opportunity-of-getting-to-15942/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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William Ralph Inge

William Ralph Inge (June 6, 1860 - February 26, 1954) was a Clergyman from England.

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