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Life & Wisdom Quote by Michael Musto

"Pretending to be other people helped bring me out of my shell and shed my inhibitions"

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There is a sly paradox baked into Musto's line: the fastest route to being yourself is to practice being someone else. Coming from a writer best known for nightlife reportage and a flair for performance-adjacent cultural criticism, the sentiment reads less like an acting-class cliché and more like a survival tactic inside scenes where persona is currency. In clubs, in queer spaces, in media worlds that reward a sharp mask, "pretending" is not deceit; it's a method.

The intent is confessional but strategic. Musto frames inhibition as something you can outmaneuver, not conquer through purity or brute confidence. "Other people" becomes a toolkit of borrowed postures: the bravado of a diva, the cool detachment of a critic, the shamelessness of a dancer. You try them on, and the shell cracks because the stakes get redistributed. If it's a role, you can risk more. If it's you, every misstep feels permanent.

The subtext is that identity is partly rehearsal. We tend to treat authenticity as a fixed core you excavate. Musto implies it's assembled in public, through stylized repetition, in places where the line between performance and selfhood is already blurred. Even "shed my inhibitions" has a tactile, costume-change quality: inhibition as something you can take off once you have a better outfit.

Culturally, the quote maps onto a late-20th-century urban ethos: camp, drag, nightlife, and journalism all as stages where exaggeration becomes protection, then permission. What starts as camouflage ends as a key.

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Musto, Michael. (2026, January 16). Pretending to be other people helped bring me out of my shell and shed my inhibitions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pretending-to-be-other-people-helped-bring-me-out-97170/

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Musto, Michael. "Pretending to be other people helped bring me out of my shell and shed my inhibitions." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pretending-to-be-other-people-helped-bring-me-out-97170/.

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"Pretending to be other people helped bring me out of my shell and shed my inhibitions." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pretending-to-be-other-people-helped-bring-me-out-97170/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.

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Michael Musto (born December 3, 1955) is a Writer from USA.

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