"Purchased experiences don't count"
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A slap in the face to a culture that treats life like a receipt. “Purchased experiences don’t count” is Doug Coupland at his most millennial-prophetic: a terse sentence that sounds like a moral rule but behaves like an accusation. It targets the kind of “living” that arrives prepackaged - the curated trip, the luxury retreat, the VIP upgrade - where the point isn’t transformation so much as proof.
The intent isn’t to scold people for spending money. It’s to expose how consumer logic colonizes memory. When an experience is bought, it risks becoming frictionless: optimized, outsourced, stripped of the awkwardness and improvisation that make a moment feel earned. Coupland’s subtext is that authenticity isn’t a vibe you can book; it’s a consequence of vulnerability, uncertainty, and sometimes boredom. Purchased experiences promise narrative without the messy labor of making one.
Context matters: Coupland came up alongside late-20th-century brand-saturation and the early wave of identity-as-consumption, then watched it evolve into social media’s attention economy, where “experience” is content and content is currency. The line anticipates today’s anxiety that travel, wellness, even self-discovery can be gamed into status markers. “Don’t count” isn’t metaphysical; it’s social. The hidden question is: count for whom? For your friends, your feed, your sense of self?
The wit is in its bluntness. Like a good Coupland aphorism, it’s less a verdict than a provocation: if the best parts of your life are turnkey, are they yours - or just another product demo?
The intent isn’t to scold people for spending money. It’s to expose how consumer logic colonizes memory. When an experience is bought, it risks becoming frictionless: optimized, outsourced, stripped of the awkwardness and improvisation that make a moment feel earned. Coupland’s subtext is that authenticity isn’t a vibe you can book; it’s a consequence of vulnerability, uncertainty, and sometimes boredom. Purchased experiences promise narrative without the messy labor of making one.
Context matters: Coupland came up alongside late-20th-century brand-saturation and the early wave of identity-as-consumption, then watched it evolve into social media’s attention economy, where “experience” is content and content is currency. The line anticipates today’s anxiety that travel, wellness, even self-discovery can be gamed into status markers. “Don’t count” isn’t metaphysical; it’s social. The hidden question is: count for whom? For your friends, your feed, your sense of self?
The wit is in its bluntness. Like a good Coupland aphorism, it’s less a verdict than a provocation: if the best parts of your life are turnkey, are they yours - or just another product demo?
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