"Pursuing employment or climatic relief, we live in voluntary exile from our extended families and our longer past, but in an involuntary exile from ourselves and our own past"
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The sentence hinges on a cruel distinction between voluntary and involuntary exile. Leaving "extended families" and a "longer past" is presented as intentional, even rational: we trade proximity to kin and tradition for opportunity, comfort, maybe survival. That’s the familiar American plotline, the one that flatters the mover as agent.
Then Thorn tightens the vise: "but in an involuntary exile from ourselves and our own past". The subtext is that departure isn’t just geographic; it rearranges memory and identity. When you exit the place that held your history, you also lose the daily cues that kept your story coherent: the neighborhood routines, the relatives who remember you inaccurately but usefully, the landmarks that pin down your earlier selves. You can choose distance from people; you can’t choose what distance does to your self-concept.
Contextually, this reads like a diagnosis of late-20th/early-21st-century rootlessness: careers demanding relocation, climate migration edging into normalcy, and a culture that prizes reinvention while undercounting what it costs. Thorn’s line works because it refuses nostalgia and refuses boosterism. It makes exile feel less like a dramatic rupture than a slow administrative process: a forwarding address for the body, a missing address for the self.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thorn, John. (2026, January 15). Pursuing employment or climatic relief, we live in voluntary exile from our extended families and our longer past, but in an involuntary exile from ourselves and our own past. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pursuing-employment-or-climatic-relief-we-live-in-160585/
Chicago Style
Thorn, John. "Pursuing employment or climatic relief, we live in voluntary exile from our extended families and our longer past, but in an involuntary exile from ourselves and our own past." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pursuing-employment-or-climatic-relief-we-live-in-160585/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Pursuing employment or climatic relief, we live in voluntary exile from our extended families and our longer past, but in an involuntary exile from ourselves and our own past." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pursuing-employment-or-climatic-relief-we-live-in-160585/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.



