"Reading is like the sex act - done privately, and often in bed"
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The subtext is a critique of performative intellectualism. Libraries, book clubs, “well-read” identity, even the idea of reading as a marker of class refinement-all of that is the public costume. The real transaction is intimate: reader and text, imagination and desire, a private encounter that doesn’t need witnesses to be real. It also quietly punctures the notion that reading is purely rational. Like sex, it’s messy, mood-dependent, sometimes escapist, sometimes transformative, sometimes just about getting through the night.
Context matters: Boorstin wrote against a 20th-century backdrop of mass media and packaged “knowledge.” The quip defends reading not as a badge, but as an experience-physical, immersive, and stubbornly individual, which is precisely why it remains hard to commodify.
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