"Reality does not conform to the ideal, but confirms it"
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The subtext is almost clinical. Flaubert, the great anatomist of bourgeois desire, spent his career showing how lofty fantasies curdle when they’re forced to live in kitchens, budgets, and reputations. Emma Bovary doesn’t collide with the world because the world is uniquely cruel; she collides because her ideals are brittle, consumer-grade, assembled from romance and status. But Flaubert isn’t simply sneering at ideals. He’s hinting that disappointment is a kind of verification: only something real can disappoint you. Only a standard can produce the sensation of falling short.
Context matters here: mid-19th-century France, where “idealism” was both a political fever and a cultural product. After revolutions and restorations, the dream of a perfected society had a hangover. Flaubert’s realism is often misread as anti-ideal. This sentence corrects that: realism doesn’t kill the ideal; it stress-tests it. Reality’s refusal to conform is precisely what keeps the ideal legible, like a horizon you can’t reach but can navigate by.
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