"Realize what you really want. It stops you from chasing butterflies and puts you to work digging gold"
About this Quote
The imperative “Realize what you really want” matters because it frames clarity as an achievement, not a personality trait. Marston isn’t asking you to pick a goal; he’s asking you to excavate the motives underneath the goals you keep sampling. The subtext is bluntly behavioral: once the reward is specific, you can stop negotiating with yourself. You trade dopamine spikes (new plans, new crushes, new ambitions) for a grind that actually compounds.
Context sharpens the edge. Marston worked in an era obsessed with measurement, motivation, and the engineering of will - early 20th-century psychology’s confidence that human behavior could be understood, predicted, even optimized. The “digging” metaphor nods to that ethos: progress is procedural, not mystical. There’s also an ethical nudge: “really want” implies an honest inventory, not a socially approved wish list. Marston’s intent is to turn desire from a distraction into a discipline - not to romanticize ambition, but to make it actionable.
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Marston, William Moulton. (2026, January 15). Realize what you really want. It stops you from chasing butterflies and puts you to work digging gold. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/realize-what-you-really-want-it-stops-you-from-79260/
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Marston, William Moulton. "Realize what you really want. It stops you from chasing butterflies and puts you to work digging gold." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/realize-what-you-really-want-it-stops-you-from-79260/.
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"Realize what you really want. It stops you from chasing butterflies and puts you to work digging gold." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/realize-what-you-really-want-it-stops-you-from-79260/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.












