"Really rejoice in being yourself. Have your own drumbeat!"
About this Quote
The phrasing does a neat piece of emotional mechanics. “Really” signals a kind of impatience with performative self-love. Don’t dabble. Commit. Then she pivots from identity to rhythm: “Have your own drumbeat.” That metaphor is strategic because it’s about pace and pattern, not just preferences. It suggests a life lived on your timing, not the industry’s, the relationship’s, the algorithm’s. In other words, authenticity isn’t a brand; it’s a boundary.
Cattrall’s cultural context sharpens the subtext. She’s tethered in the public imagination to Sex and the City’s sexual frankness and to the behind-the-scenes narrative of professional limits and refusal. Read through that lens, the line becomes less inspirational and more instructional: choose yourself early, choose yourself repeatedly, and don’t apologize when that choice makes you hard to manage.
It’s also a quiet rebuke to the modern performance of individuality, where “being yourself” can become just another aesthetic. A drumbeat can’t be faked for long. It’s felt, kept, and defended.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cattrall, Kim. (2026, February 20). Really rejoice in being yourself. Have your own drumbeat! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/really-rejoice-in-being-yourself-have-your-own-23445/
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Cattrall, Kim. "Really rejoice in being yourself. Have your own drumbeat!" FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/really-rejoice-in-being-yourself-have-your-own-23445/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Really rejoice in being yourself. Have your own drumbeat!" FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/really-rejoice-in-being-yourself-have-your-own-23445/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.












