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Love & Passion Quote by Hermione Gingold

"Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important"

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Gingold tosses off a line that sounds like a cocktail-party aphorism, then quietly turns it into a worldview. “Sex and laughter” is an old pairing in theory but still mildly scandalous in practice; she treats it as obvious, almost domestic, as if intimacy without humor is just bad craft. Coming from an actress who made a career out of sharp-edged charm and seasoned self-mockery, the joke isn’t merely that the two “go well together” but that they’re competing necessities. She frames the question like a flirtation and lands it like a critique of seriousness.

The dash-heavy cadence matters: “I wondered - and I still do -” signals a mind that refuses closure. It’s not a punchline; it’s an ongoing argument with moral hierarchies that insist sex must be either sacred or shameful, while laughter gets quarantined as lightweight. Gingold smuggles in a more pragmatic scale of value: what keeps you alive, what keeps you human, what keeps you from becoming ridiculous in the wrong way.

There’s also the performer’s subtext: onstage and off, laughter is social power. It disarms, bonds, protects. Sex can be private, destabilizing, freighted with age and expectation; laughter is portable, a tool you can still wield when desire changes or the room turns cold. The line’s sly brilliance is that it refuses to choose while hinting she already has: laughter is the durable pleasure, sex the volatile one, and the happiest life is where they collude.

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Gingold, Hermione. (2026, January 17). Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/really-sex-and-laughter-do-go-very-well-together-74735/

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Gingold, Hermione. "Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/really-sex-and-laughter-do-go-very-well-together-74735/.

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"Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/really-sex-and-laughter-do-go-very-well-together-74735/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Hermione Gingold (December 9, 1897 - 1987) was a Actress from England.

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