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Daily Inspiration Quote by Diane Arbus

"Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory"

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“Look like a winner” lands with a jolt coming from Diane Arbus, an artist famous for doing the opposite: photographing people who didn’t, couldn’t, or refused to perform conventional “winning.” That tension is the point. On its face, the line reads like a locker-room mantra about confidence as self-fulfilling prophecy. In Arbus’s orbit, it becomes a small, unsettling thesis about performance itself: the mask isn’t just decoration; it’s a tool that rearranges power.

The intent is pragmatic, even a little ruthless. She’s not prescribing inner peace. She’s recommending an exterior posture that can manipulate both audience and self. “Sustained look of control” is basically a studio direction, a reminder that control is often a visual effect before it becomes a fact. Arbus spent her career watching how people are read - by clothing, stance, expression, and the social scripts attached to them. The subtext is that credibility is as much something you project as something you deserve.

Context matters: Arbus worked in mid-century America, a culture obsessed with polish, status, and the idea that normalcy equals success. Her photographs exposed the fragility of that aesthetic: the way “confidence” can be staged, the way “winner” is a costume the culture rewards. So the quote isn’t simply motivational; it’s diagnostic. It admits an uncomfortable truth: victory is partly negotiated through optics. You don’t just compete on the field; you compete in the gaze. And if you can hold that gaze steady long enough, the world - and your own nerves - may start to believe you.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Arbus, Diane. (2026, January 18). Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/regardless-of-how-you-feel-inside-always-try-to-4021/

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Arbus, Diane. "Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/regardless-of-how-you-feel-inside-always-try-to-4021/.

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"Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/regardless-of-how-you-feel-inside-always-try-to-4021/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Diane Arbus (March 14, 1923 - July 26, 1971) was a Photographer from USA.

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