"Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover"
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The intent is less blame-your-parents than pattern-recognition. He’s sketching a double loop: we replay the dynamic our parents had with each other (what love looked like in the house), and we replay the role we had inside it (what we learned we had to be to get attention, safety, approval). That’s why the line feels a little fatalistic: your “type” isn’t just taste, it’s muscle memory.
Context matters because this is a musician talking, not a therapist. Coming from a pop figure associated with soft-rock sincerity, it reads like late-life clarity rather than a hot take. It’s the kind of observation you arrive at after enough breakups to notice the cast keeps changing but the script doesn’t. Underneath, there’s a gentle provocation: if romance is a rerun, then growth isn’t finding “the one” so much as finally changing the channel.
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| Topic | Relationship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Loggins, Kenny. (2026, January 16). Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/relationships-are-so-much-a-rerun-of-our-parental-103956/
Chicago Style
Loggins, Kenny. "Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/relationships-are-so-much-a-rerun-of-our-parental-103956/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/relationships-are-so-much-a-rerun-of-our-parental-103956/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.










