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Creativity Quote by Kenny Loggins

"Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover"

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Loggins is doing what good pop writing often does: taking a messy psychological truth and making it feel singable. The line lands because it sneaks a big idea in through plain talk. “Rerun” is the killer word. It’s not clinical, it’s TV. It suggests something familiar, addictive, and slightly humiliating: you already know how this episode ends, yet you watch it anyway. That metaphor also implies passivity. A rerun plays whether you choose it or not, which is exactly the subtext here about old patterns running our adult intimacy.

The intent is less blame-your-parents than pattern-recognition. He’s sketching a double loop: we replay the dynamic our parents had with each other (what love looked like in the house), and we replay the role we had inside it (what we learned we had to be to get attention, safety, approval). That’s why the line feels a little fatalistic: your “type” isn’t just taste, it’s muscle memory.

Context matters because this is a musician talking, not a therapist. Coming from a pop figure associated with soft-rock sincerity, it reads like late-life clarity rather than a hot take. It’s the kind of observation you arrive at after enough breakups to notice the cast keeps changing but the script doesn’t. Underneath, there’s a gentle provocation: if romance is a rerun, then growth isn’t finding “the one” so much as finally changing the channel.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Loggins, Kenny. (2026, January 16). Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/relationships-are-so-much-a-rerun-of-our-parental-103956/

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Loggins, Kenny. "Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/relationships-are-so-much-a-rerun-of-our-parental-103956/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Relationships are so much a rerun of our parental relationships. We're rerunning the relationship they were in together and we're rerunning the relationship we had with them with our lover." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/relationships-are-so-much-a-rerun-of-our-parental-103956/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Kenny Loggins (born January 7, 1948) is a Musician from USA.

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