"Religion kept some of my relatives alive, because it was all they had. If they hadn't had some hope of heaven, some companionship in Jesus, they probably would have committed suicide, their lives were so hellish"
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The subtext is a critique aimed in two directions. At secular commentators who treat belief as naive, she offers an unsentimental rebuttal: you don’t get to mock the one thing preventing self-destruction when you’ve never had to live inside that pressure cooker. At religious institutions, there’s an implied indictment too. If Jesus is primarily "companionship" in a world that withholds human companionship and dignity, then the real scandal is the social order that makes divine friendship the most available form of care.
Context matters: Butler, a Black woman writing speculative fiction in late-20th-century America, understood how systems grind people down while demanding they remain grateful. Her work often asks what humans will cling to under coercion and scarcity. Here, religion reads less like enlightenment than like an adaptive trait - hope as a coping mechanism that can be lifesaving even if it’s also a symptom of abandonment. The sentence is tender, but it’s not comforting. It’s a receipt.
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Butler, Octavia. (2026, January 16). Religion kept some of my relatives alive, because it was all they had. If they hadn't had some hope of heaven, some companionship in Jesus, they probably would have committed suicide, their lives were so hellish. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/religion-kept-some-of-my-relatives-alive-because-100930/
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Butler, Octavia. "Religion kept some of my relatives alive, because it was all they had. If they hadn't had some hope of heaven, some companionship in Jesus, they probably would have committed suicide, their lives were so hellish." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/religion-kept-some-of-my-relatives-alive-because-100930/.
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"Religion kept some of my relatives alive, because it was all they had. If they hadn't had some hope of heaven, some companionship in Jesus, they probably would have committed suicide, their lives were so hellish." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/religion-kept-some-of-my-relatives-alive-because-100930/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








