"Religion which lays so many restraints upon us, is a troublesome companion to those who will lay no restraints upon themselves"
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The subtext is psychological and social. If you “lay no restraints upon” yourself, any system that asks you to pause, deny, confess, or consider others will feel like an unwanted roommate. Sterne implies that the problem isn’t religion’s strictness so much as the individual’s refusal to develop an inner brake. In that sense, the quote reads like an early diagnosis of what we now call moral licensing: people who want the cultural benefits of virtue-signaling without the personal costs of virtuous behavior.
Context matters. Sterne is a clergyman’s son writing in an 18th-century Britain where Anglican respectability carried real social weight, and where the novel was becoming a laboratory for private motives. His fiction thrives on comic exposure of self-deception; this sentence does the same work in miniature. It’s a sly defense of restraint that never sounds pious, and a critique of piety that never lets the libertine off the hook.
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| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sterne, Laurence. (2026, January 18). Religion which lays so many restraints upon us, is a troublesome companion to those who will lay no restraints upon themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/religion-which-lays-so-many-restraints-upon-us-is-15813/
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Sterne, Laurence. "Religion which lays so many restraints upon us, is a troublesome companion to those who will lay no restraints upon themselves." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/religion-which-lays-so-many-restraints-upon-us-is-15813/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Religion which lays so many restraints upon us, is a troublesome companion to those who will lay no restraints upon themselves." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/religion-which-lays-so-many-restraints-upon-us-is-15813/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









