"Remain calm, serene, always in command of yourself. You will then find out how easy it is to get along"
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The subtext is quietly radical. Social harmony, he implies, doesn’t start with better people or fairer conditions but with a nervous system you can govern. That’s why the payoff is phrased almost casually: “You will then find out how easy it is to get along.” The ease is not because the world becomes kinder; it’s because your reactivity stops handing other people the steering wheel. Yogananda is selling a kind of sovereignty that looks like politeness from the outside.
Context matters here: he’s speaking into a modernity defined by speed, immigration, and social churn, where “getting along” is both a moral aspiration and a survival skill. The sentence is structured like a practice, not a platitude: calm -> command -> discovery. It’s also a subtle rebuke to the culture of grievance without denying suffering. The promise isn’t that conflict disappears; it’s that it loses its power to own you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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| Source | Verified source: The Divine Romance (Collected Talks and Essays, Vol. II) (Paramahansa Yogananda, 2000)
Evidence: Do not nag them. Remain calm, serene, always in command of yourself. You will then find out how easy it is to get along. (Page 91 (essay/talk section commonly titled “The Spectrum of Spiritual Consciousness” in this volume)). I was able to locate the quote verbatim in a text scan of Self-Realization Fellowship’s book The Divine Romance (Collected Talks and Essays on Realizing God in Daily Life, Volume II). In that scan, the book’s copyright page indicates “Copyright © 2000 Self-Realization Fellowship,” and the sentence appears in the context of advice on judging oneself rather than others (immediately after “Do not nag them.”). The scan is not an official SRF-hosted copy, so I’m treating this as a verified *appearance in an SRF volume* but not definitive proof of *first publication/speaking date*. To identify the earliest appearance, you would likely need SRF’s own bibliographic notes for the specific talk (date/location) or access to earlier SRF magazines/transcripts. Other candidates (1) The Five Elements of Relationships (Dr. Vicki Matthews, 2022) compilation95.0% ... Remain calm , serene , always in command of yourself . You will then find out how easy it is to get along . -Para... |
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Yogananda, Paramahansa. "Remain calm, serene, always in command of yourself. You will then find out how easy it is to get along." FixQuotes. March 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remain-calm-serene-always-in-command-of-yourself-26208/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Remain calm, serene, always in command of yourself. You will then find out how easy it is to get along." FixQuotes, 3 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remain-calm-serene-always-in-command-of-yourself-26208/. Accessed 9 Mar. 2026.













