Life & Wisdom Quote by Vernon Howard

Howard’s line reads like a quiet rebuke to a culture that treats anxiety as an app you can close. “Mental stability” is framed not as a lucky baseline or a chemical accident, but as a practice: you don’t get steadiness by outrunning inner weather; you get it by looking directly at what’s actually happening inside you. The sting is in the last word. “Avoidence” (misspelled, tellingly) isn’t just a bad habit here; it’s the default strategy most of us are sold, from hustle mythology to self-help that promises “positivity” as a bypass.

The intent is corrective and almost ascetic: stop negotiating with discomfort. Howard’s work sits in that mid-century self-realization tradition that borrows from contemplative disciplines while speaking in plain, imperative sentences. He’s not prescribing rumination, though. “Examining” implies a certain distance, like holding up a thought for inspection rather than fusing with it. The subtext is that the mind’s contents are already running the show; avoidance doesn’t remove them, it simply hands them the keys in the dark.

It also smuggles in a sharper psychological claim: stability is not the absence of fear, shame, or intrusive thoughts; it’s the capacity to tolerate them without letting them dictate behavior. That idea lands now because our avoidance tools have multiplied. Doomscrolling, overwork, substances, even “wellness” can be sophisticated detours. Howard is pushing the reader toward the unglamorous work of attention: the kind that turns a private mess into intelligible data, and panic into something you can actually respond to.