"Remember, it's as easy to marry a rich woman as a poor woman"
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Thackeray’s line lands like a friendly tip from a man who’s watched society perform its pieties in public and its transactions in private. “Remember” is doing sly work: it’s the tone of worldly counsel, the kind passed along in drawing rooms where morality is recited and money is quietly counted. The provocation is the apparent pragmatism. If marrying a rich woman is “as easy” as marrying a poor one, then the usual Victorian alibi for marrying within one’s means - that love, duty, or class propriety “made” it so - collapses into a choice. And once it’s a choice, the moral veneer looks thin.
The subtext is less about women than about the men who treat marriage as logistics. Thackeray’s comic cruelty is in how he reduces a sacred institution to a flat comparison, as if spouses are interchangeable units differentiated only by net worth. The line also needles class anxiety: the fantasy that wealth is inaccessible, that “good matches” require special genius, pedigree, or romantic fate. No, he implies: the same social scripts, courtship rituals, and self-justifying narratives will serve you either way.
Context matters: Thackeray’s fiction (Vanity Fair especially) is obsessed with the marketplace of respectability, where sentiment is a currency that makes cash seem tasteful. The joke isn’t merely that people are greedy; it’s that they’re greedy and still insist on being seen as honorable. That hypocrisy is the real target, and the line hits because it refuses to let anyone pretend otherwise.
The subtext is less about women than about the men who treat marriage as logistics. Thackeray’s comic cruelty is in how he reduces a sacred institution to a flat comparison, as if spouses are interchangeable units differentiated only by net worth. The line also needles class anxiety: the fantasy that wealth is inaccessible, that “good matches” require special genius, pedigree, or romantic fate. No, he implies: the same social scripts, courtship rituals, and self-justifying narratives will serve you either way.
Context matters: Thackeray’s fiction (Vanity Fair especially) is obsessed with the marketplace of respectability, where sentiment is a currency that makes cash seem tasteful. The joke isn’t merely that people are greedy; it’s that they’re greedy and still insist on being seen as honorable. That hypocrisy is the real target, and the line hits because it refuses to let anyone pretend otherwise.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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