"Remember we're all in this alone"
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“Remember we’re all in this alone” lands like a punchline that refuses to stay funny. Lily Tomlin, a comedian who’s spent a career slicing open American optimism with a grin, takes the communal pep talk (“we’re all in this together”) and flips it into something colder, truer, and weirdly comforting. The joke is the misfit logic: “all” suggests solidarity; “alone” cancels it. That contradiction is the point. It captures the modern condition where we share the same crises, feeds, and slogans, yet experience them as private weather.
The intent isn’t nihilism so much as inoculation. Tomlin’s line warns you not to outsource your life to the crowd, the movement, the institution, the algorithm promising belonging. If everyone is “in this,” no one is exempt; if everyone is “alone,” no one is coming to rescue you. That’s bleak, but it’s also clarifying. It’s a comedian’s way of demanding adulthood: take responsibility, make your choices, stop waiting for the group to absorb the consequences.
Context matters because Tomlin’s persona has always played with masks: characters, voices, archetypes of American life. She knows how easily “togetherness” becomes a performance, a slogan people recite to feel virtuous without changing behavior. The subtext is a critique of group comfort and public sentimentality, especially in moments when culture tries to wallpaper over fear with community theater. The line works because it’s both a gag and a diagnosis: connection is possible, but it’s not a substitute for the solitary work of being human.
The intent isn’t nihilism so much as inoculation. Tomlin’s line warns you not to outsource your life to the crowd, the movement, the institution, the algorithm promising belonging. If everyone is “in this,” no one is exempt; if everyone is “alone,” no one is coming to rescue you. That’s bleak, but it’s also clarifying. It’s a comedian’s way of demanding adulthood: take responsibility, make your choices, stop waiting for the group to absorb the consequences.
Context matters because Tomlin’s persona has always played with masks: characters, voices, archetypes of American life. She knows how easily “togetherness” becomes a performance, a slogan people recite to feel virtuous without changing behavior. The subtext is a critique of group comfort and public sentimentality, especially in moments when culture tries to wallpaper over fear with community theater. The line works because it’s both a gag and a diagnosis: connection is possible, but it’s not a substitute for the solitary work of being human.
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Tomlin, Lily. (2026, January 17). Remember we're all in this alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remember-were-all-in-this-alone-28624/
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Tomlin, Lily. "Remember we're all in this alone." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remember-were-all-in-this-alone-28624/.
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"Remember we're all in this alone." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remember-were-all-in-this-alone-28624/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.
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