"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important"
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The subtext is pure Jobs: a ruthless sorting mechanism. When he says “big choices,” he’s implicitly arguing that most decision-making is contaminated by optics. Strip away “external expectations,” and you get the version of yourself that can ship the thing, quit the safe job, make the awkward call, burn the boats. It’s a philosophy that flatters risk, but also disciplines it: if you’re going to gamble, do it for something that survives your ego.
Context matters. Jobs delivered this in a culture that worships ambition while quietly punishing deviation. It’s also inseparable from his biography: the adopted kid who reinvented himself, the CEO who was publicly fired, the founder who returned, the patient confronting cancer. Mortality wasn’t an abstract concept; it was an operating system upgrade forced by circumstance. The brilliance of the quote is its inversion: death doesn’t shrink life here - it edits it, brutally, into focus.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mortality |
|---|---|
| Source | Steve Jobs — Stanford University Commencement Address, June 12, 2005; official transcript contains the passage about "remembering death" as a tool for making life choices. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jobs, Steve. (2026, January 18). Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remembering-that-ill-be-dead-soon-is-the-most-17686/
Chicago Style
Jobs, Steve. "Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remembering-that-ill-be-dead-soon-is-the-most-17686/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/remembering-that-ill-be-dead-soon-is-the-most-17686/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













