"Research on child abuse suggests that religious beliefs can foster, encourage, and justify the abuse of children. When contempt for sex underlies teachings, this creates a breeding ground for abuse"
About this Quote
Garden’s line is a scalpel aimed at the sanctified alibis institutions build around cruelty. The key move is her refusal to treat abuse as a mere failure of individual morality; she frames it as something a belief system can actively “foster, encourage, and justify.” That trio matters. “Foster” suggests an environment that quietly nurtures harm; “encourage” implies social permission; “justify” is the endgame, when violence gets retrofitted with righteousness. The rhetorical escalation is doing cultural work: it shifts responsibility from isolated “bad apples” to the orchard.
The second sentence tightens the thesis with a psychologically charged mechanism: contempt for sex. Garden isn’t claiming sex itself causes abuse; she’s indicting a pedagogy of shame. When sexuality is treated as dirty, dangerous, or inherently guilty, children become both the supposed carriers of temptation and the easiest targets for control. Shame thrives on secrecy, and secrecy is the oxygen of abuse. A culture that teaches silence about the body, distrust of desire, and deference to authority creates conditions where violations can be reframed as discipline, correction, or even salvation.
The subtext is also political: religion here isn’t just private faith, it’s a social technology capable of laundering power. Garden’s phrasing leaves room for nuance (she says “can,” not “always”), but the provocation is clear. The most disturbing abuses aren’t only committed; they’re made narratively acceptable by doctrines that demonize sex, privilege obedience, and turn suffering into proof of virtue.
The second sentence tightens the thesis with a psychologically charged mechanism: contempt for sex. Garden isn’t claiming sex itself causes abuse; she’s indicting a pedagogy of shame. When sexuality is treated as dirty, dangerous, or inherently guilty, children become both the supposed carriers of temptation and the easiest targets for control. Shame thrives on secrecy, and secrecy is the oxygen of abuse. A culture that teaches silence about the body, distrust of desire, and deference to authority creates conditions where violations can be reframed as discipline, correction, or even salvation.
The subtext is also political: religion here isn’t just private faith, it’s a social technology capable of laundering power. Garden’s phrasing leaves room for nuance (she says “can,” not “always”), but the provocation is clear. The most disturbing abuses aren’t only committed; they’re made narratively acceptable by doctrines that demonize sex, privilege obedience, and turn suffering into proof of virtue.
Quote Details
| Topic | Human Rights |
|---|
More Quotes by Mary
Add to List

