"Respect commands itself and can neither be given nor withheld when it is due"
About this Quote
The subtext is a critique of liberal benevolence and institutional permission. Cleaver is pushing back on a world where Black Americans were expected to be patient, deferential, and thankful for incremental recognition. If respect can’t be “given,” then the authority that claims to dispense it is exposed as counterfeit; it’s merely offering compliance dressed up as courtesy. If it can’t be “withheld” when due, then contempt becomes self-indictment: the refusal to respect someone’s humanity says more about the refuser than the refused.
Context matters because Cleaver’s life sits at the intersection of brutality and rhetoric: prison, radicalization, the Black Panther era’s insistence on self-determination. In that climate, “respect” isn’t about manners; it’s about safety, rights, and who gets to move through the world unpunished. The sentence works because it flips the power dynamic in one motion. It dares the listener to choose: recognize what is owed, or reveal the ugliness required to deny it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Respect |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cleaver, Eldridge. (2026, January 17). Respect commands itself and can neither be given nor withheld when it is due. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respect-commands-itself-and-can-neither-be-given-41930/
Chicago Style
Cleaver, Eldridge. "Respect commands itself and can neither be given nor withheld when it is due." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respect-commands-itself-and-can-neither-be-given-41930/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Respect commands itself and can neither be given nor withheld when it is due." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respect-commands-itself-and-can-neither-be-given-41930/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










