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Wealth & Money Quote by Thomas Mann

"Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent"

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Mann lands the blade where bourgeois morality pretends it isn’t: in the wallet. The line is funny in a cold way, because it takes words that are supposed to describe character - “respectable,” “decent” - and reveals them as class-coded costumes. “Respectable” doesn’t mean virtuous; it means insulated, connected, unembarrassed by bills. “Decent” doesn’t mean good; it means modest, possibly struggling, and therefore safely nonthreatening. Mann’s wit comes from making the euphemism speak plainly, then pushing it into melodrama: “I should die...” The exaggeration isn’t just a joke; it’s a diagnostic tool. It shows how reputation operates like oxygen in certain families: take it away, and they feel they can’t breathe.

As a German novelist obsessed with the rituals and rot of the upper-middle class, Mann is writing against the grain of a society that prized Ordnung and propriety while quietly worshipping status. The family’s horror at being called “decent” is a miniature of that world: fear of downward mobility disguised as fear of moral mislabeling. The irony is that “decent” should be a compliment, but in this social vocabulary it’s a downgrade, a polite way of saying you don’t matter.

The intent isn’t to praise poverty or sneer at wealth as such; it’s to expose how language becomes a border patrol. Mann shows how class maintains itself not only through money, but through the terms people accept as praise.

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Mann, Thomas. (2026, January 18). Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respectable-means-rich-and-decent-means-poor-i-11649/

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Mann, Thomas. "Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respectable-means-rich-and-decent-means-poor-i-11649/.

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"Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respectable-means-rich-and-decent-means-poor-i-11649/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Thomas Mann (June 6, 1875 - August 12, 1955) was a Writer from Germany.

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