"Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent"
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As a German novelist obsessed with the rituals and rot of the upper-middle class, Mann is writing against the grain of a society that prized Ordnung and propriety while quietly worshipping status. The family’s horror at being called “decent” is a miniature of that world: fear of downward mobility disguised as fear of moral mislabeling. The irony is that “decent” should be a compliment, but in this social vocabulary it’s a downgrade, a polite way of saying you don’t matter.
The intent isn’t to praise poverty or sneer at wealth as such; it’s to expose how language becomes a border patrol. Mann shows how class maintains itself not only through money, but through the terms people accept as praise.
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Mann, Thomas. (2026, January 18). Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respectable-means-rich-and-decent-means-poor-i-11649/
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Mann, Thomas. "Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respectable-means-rich-and-decent-means-poor-i-11649/.
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"Respectable means rich, and decent means poor. I should die if I heard my family called decent." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/respectable-means-rich-and-decent-means-poor-i-11649/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










