"Responsibilities gravitate to the person who can shoulder them"
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The intent feels characteristically Stoppardian: lucid enough to sound like common sense, sharp enough to sting. It's not motivational poster optimism about stepping up. It's a warning about how responsibility accumulates, how virtue gets punished by being used. "Can shoulder them" is bodily language, workman's language, suggesting weight and wear, not prestige. The competent person isn't crowned; they're loaded.
Subtextually, it challenges the romance of fairness. People like to imagine responsibility being assigned through deliberation, titles, or justice. Stoppard implies it's assigned the way water finds the lowest point: through ease. The person who can handle it becomes the path of least resistance. Everyone else's abdication gets laundered as practicality.
Context matters, too. Stoppard spent a career dramatizing systems - political, philosophical, theatrical - and the way language prettifies power. This line could sit in a drawing-room comedy or a political play; either way, it exposes an unglamorous truth about modern life: competence attracts duty, and duty, unattended, keeps coming back for more.
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| Topic | Leadership |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stoppard, Tom. (2026, January 15). Responsibilities gravitate to the person who can shoulder them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/responsibilities-gravitate-to-the-person-who-can-29477/
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Stoppard, Tom. "Responsibilities gravitate to the person who can shoulder them." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/responsibilities-gravitate-to-the-person-who-can-29477/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Responsibilities gravitate to the person who can shoulder them." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/responsibilities-gravitate-to-the-person-who-can-29477/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









