"Responsibility is the thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one thing in the world that develops us, gives us manhood or womanhood fiber"
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The subtext is moral realism: comfort doesn’t ennoble you. Crane is trying to short-circuit the era’s temptation toward passive piety, the idea that goodness is primarily a matter of belief, sentiment, or private purity. Here, maturity is forged in public commitments, bills paid, promises kept, people cared for when it’s inconvenient. Responsibility isn’t sanctified because it’s pleasant; it’s sanctified because it’s costly and therefore formative.
The phrase “manhood or womanhood fiber” carries its own context and tension. “Fiber” evokes muscle, grit, tensile strength; “manhood/womanhood” reflects a gendered moral vocabulary common to his time, where adulthood is proven through duty rather than self-expression. Read today, the gender framing dates the quote, but the mechanism still lands: dread marks the presence of stakes, and stakes are what turn a person from soft potential into usable integrity. Crane’s intent isn’t to scold; it’s to recruit the reader into choosing hardship as a path to agency.
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Crane, Frank. (2026, January 17). Responsibility is the thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one thing in the world that develops us, gives us manhood or womanhood fiber. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/responsibility-is-the-thing-people-dread-most-of-70546/
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Crane, Frank. "Responsibility is the thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one thing in the world that develops us, gives us manhood or womanhood fiber." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/responsibility-is-the-thing-people-dread-most-of-70546/.
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"Responsibility is the thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one thing in the world that develops us, gives us manhood or womanhood fiber." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/responsibility-is-the-thing-people-dread-most-of-70546/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








