"Revenge is often like biting a dog because the dog bit you"
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Calling the target a dog matters. A dog bites out of instinct, fear, training, hunger. We know this, which is why “biting back” feels especially foolish. The subtext is that a lot of what hurts us comes from forces that aren’t meaningfully corrected by our rage: ignorance, impulse, systems, history. Revenge imagines the world is a neat ledger; O’Malley insists it’s closer to a kennel, full of chaotic motives and misread signals. Your bite won’t teach the dog ethics. It will only confirm that the environment is hostile.
The phrasing also exposes the theater of revenge. It’s performative, meant to reclaim power, but the method guarantees a loss of dignity. You become spectacle: the person so consumed by injury they abandon the standards that supposedly make them “better” than the biter. For a late-19th/early-20th century professional steeped in scientific thinking, the metaphor lands like a practical warning: choose responses that change outcomes, not ones that merely discharge emotion. Revenge may feel like control; it’s often just contagion.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Malley, Austin. (2026, January 15). Revenge is often like biting a dog because the dog bit you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/revenge-is-often-like-biting-a-dog-because-the-28043/
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O'Malley, Austin. "Revenge is often like biting a dog because the dog bit you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/revenge-is-often-like-biting-a-dog-because-the-28043/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Revenge is often like biting a dog because the dog bit you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/revenge-is-often-like-biting-a-dog-because-the-28043/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.













